The Subtle Art of Discernment in Coaching
- Cindy Hosea

- Jul 7
- 5 min read
Updated: Oct 13

In the fluid current of a coaching conversation, every moment ripples with choice.
Do you ask—or stay silent? Reflect—or let it breathe? Name what’s present—or wait for it to name itself?
These are not intellectual puzzles; they’re somatic invitations. Discernment is what allows a coach to sense rather than decide, to follow the thread that hums with life instead of the one that merely makes sense.
Imagine two dice tumbling between coach and client. Each face is a possible direction. Discernment is not about rolling the right number—it’s about noticing which one lands with resonance.
It’s presence, intuition, and partnership braided into a single elegant pause. 🎲🤔



