top of page

Personal Growth Bookshelf

This is all about growing the mindset, habits, and courage to live your full life.

​​

These are the books that shake things up. The ones that make you rethink how you communicate, set boundaries like a boss, and design a life that actually works for you. Whether it’s building better habits, leveling up your emotional intelligence, or rewiring the way you think about success, these books have left their mark on me—literally, with all the underlining and margin notes. If you’re ready to stop coasting and start growing, this is the shelf to explore.

Curious? Browse what's on my bookshelf—and just so you know, I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link (at no extra cost to you). So, if you grab one, you’re not just investing in yourself—you’re also helping me keep growing personally while I justify my ever-expanding stack of books.

Atomic Habits

Atomic Habits

An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

by James Clear

If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.

Becoming Coachable

Becoming Coachable

Unleashing the Power of Executive Coaching to Transform Your Leadership and Life

by Scott Osman, Jacquelyn Lane, Marshall Goldsmith

What the world’s most influential leaders know is that the secret to achieving that effectiveness is becoming coachable. And in order to do so, one must be ready to engage in the process of betterment, starting with investing in yourself in order to give the most back to your organization, team, and the world.

Captivate

Captivate

The Science of Succeeding with People

by Vanessa Van Edwards

Learn shortcuts, systems, and secrets for taking charge of your interactions at work, at home, and in any social situation. These aren’t the people skills you learned in school. This is the first comprehensive, science backed, real life manual on how to captivate anyone—and a completely new approach to building connections.

Crucial Conversations

Crucial Conversations

Tools for Talking When Stakes are High

by Joseph Grenny

Crucial Conversations provides powerful skills to ensure every conversation―especially difficult ones―leads to the results you want. Learn how to be persuasive rather than abrasive, how to get back to productive dialogue when others blow up or clam up, and powerful skills for mastering high-stakes conversations, regardless of the topic or person.

Cues

Cues

Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

by Vanessa Van Edwards

Cues – the tiny signals we send to others 24/7 through our body language, facial expressions, word choice, and vocal inflection – have a massive impact on how we, and our ideas, come across. Our cues can either enhance our message or undermine it. Learn how to convey power, trust, leadership, likeability, and charisma in every interaction

Designing Your Life

Designing Your Life

How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life

by Bill Burnett, Dave Evans

Learn how design thinking can help us create a life that is both meaningful and fulfilling, regardless of who or where we are, what we do or have done for a living, or how young or old we are. Design and build your career and your life—joyful, creative and productive—one that always holds the possibility of surprise.

Emotional Intelligence 2.0

Emotional Intelligence 2.0

Harness the Power of the #1 Predictor of Success

by Dr. Travis Bradberry, Dr. Jean Greaves

It’s no secret that EQ is critical to your success. But knowing what EQ is and knowing how to use it to improve your life are two very different things. Explore a step-by-step program for increasing your EQ via four, core EQ skills: 1) Self-Awareness; 2) Self-Management; 3) Social Awareness; and 4) Relationship Management. Assessment included.

Fierce Conversations

Fierce Conversations

Achieving Success at Work and in Life One Conversation at a Time

by Susan Scott

Master positive change through powerful communication. In this guide, which includes a workbook and The Seven Principles of Fierce Conversations, Scott teaches you how to transform everyday conversations at work and at home with effective ways to get your message across.

Hidden Potential

Hidden Potential

The Science of Achieving Greater Things

by Adam Grant

Progress depends less on how hard you work than how well you learn. Growth is not about the genius you possess—it’s about the character you develop. Explore how to build the character skills and motivational structures to realize your potential, and how to design systems that create opportunities for those who have been underrated and overlooked.

Immunity to Change

Immunity to Change

How to Overcome It and Unlock the Potential in Yourself and Your Organization

by Robert Kegan, Lisa Laskow Lahey

Our individual beliefs--along with the collective mind-sets in our organizations--combine to create a natural but powerful immunity to change. And by pinpointing and uprooting our own immunities to change, we can unlock our potential and finally move forward.

Integration

Integration

The Power of Being Co-Active in Work and Life

by Ann Betz, Karen Kimsey-House

Explore and apply the Co-Active model to become more effective, connected, and whole. Richly illustrated with true stories of integration in action, as well as current research in neuroscience, this book provides a guide to reaching our full potential within ourselves, with each other, in groups and organizations and with society at large.

Positive Intelligence

Positive Intelligence

Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential AND HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOURS

by Shirzad Chamine

Learn the secret to defeating ten well-disguised mental Saboteurs. Positive Intelligence (PQ) measures the percentage of time your mind is serving you as opposed to sabotaging you.  While your IQ and EQ (emotional intelligence) contribute to your maximum potential, it is your PQ that determines how much of that potential you actually achieve.

The Anatomy of Peace

The Anatomy of Peace

Resolving the Heart of Conflict

by The Arbinger Institute

The Anatomy of Peace uses a fictional story to powerfully show readers the way to transform conflict. We learn how they come together, how they help parents and children come together, and how we too can find our way out of the personal, professional, and social conflicts that weigh us down.

Designing Your Life Workbook

The Designing Your Life Workbook

A Framework for Building a Life You Can Thrive In

by Bill Burnett, Dave Evans

Design the most important project of all: your life. This notebook allows you to dig deeper into your curiosities, motivations, and skills; define your goals; and track your progress. Work through innovative option-generating tools and exercises.

The EQ Edge

The EQ Edge

Emotional Intelligence and Your Success

by Steven J. Stein, Howard E. Book

Learn how the dynamic of emotional intelligence works. By understanding EQ, you can build more meaningful relationships, boost your confidence and optimism, and respond to challenges with enthusiasm-all of which are essential ingredients of success.

The Earned Life

The Earned Life

Lose Regret, Choose Fulfillment

by Marshall Goldsmith

“We are living an earned life when the choices, risks, and effort we make in each moment align with an overarching purpose in our lives, regardless of the eventual outcome.” But for many of us, that pesky final phrase is a stumbling block. Not being attached to the outcome goes against everything we’re taught about achievement and fulfillment.

The Four Agreements

The Four Agreements

A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)

by don Miguel Ruiz, Janet Mills

Explore the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.

The Let Them Theory

The Let Them Theory

A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

by Mel Robbins, Sawyer Robbins

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you.

bottom of page